When you want something bad enough. All the spirits/energy around you come together to make it happen. You just have to believe in yourself. Most often every opportunity is a test to see if you have what it takes to make it. If you are too selfish, or if you have ego, all that will be your downfall. Some people never learn, true leaders often never want what is given to them by karma. And that my friends is life!
I have always said, relationships are not rocket science. But to me they are not rocket science, but to many others, it’s the formula e=mc2. Be yourself, and push your ability to do something extraordinary in your lifetime. Every soul/spirit needs to shine at their best, or forever hold your peace. Too many faces before our time have died in vain. You can either be another number that will be remembered as someone with potential. Or you can actually do, what you always wanted to do. Don’t make excuses, there is nothing the world has not seen or heard when you do that. Believe in yourself inside out. Trust me when I say this, that all the energy around you and the spirits will know this and believe in you. You might not need to say much at all, because people around you will feel you and your energy.
But what do I know, as according to the world, I am not an expert. I hold no degrees in anything. But sometimes the world doesn’t need experts with no field experience, sometimes the world needs something real, without text book answers. My columns are touching more and more souls every day. I am reaching over 600,000+ women weekly reading my columns on relationships and love. There are so many women out there that are not in love, misunderstood, and I understand what men are looking for as well, as I see such a lack of confidence, communications from both parties.
Now more often than before, I get told by women, can they clone me…lol. Or why aren’t there more men thinking alone the lines of what I write. The first thing I tell these women is, that not all men are dogs. A lot of men have been subjected to treat women in a certain way, and a lot of women have let them get away with it. I got asked why am I still single? My answer is that I have just started dating now. And the women I am finding are two kinds. The ones that have a lot of pain inside and feel they need to talk to someone like me to help them get out of it. So my date turns out to be a one on one Dr. Phil session. Hey, if I can help someone be happy first, before thinking about my needs. That is the greatest gift I can give back to the world that has given so much to me. One happy soul is going to spread that energy to 10 people, and the effect is never ending. The other kind of women I have dated are the strong, don’t tell me what to do, I am my own person, kind of women. They are so defensive and analytical, that they will dissect everything I say to find an anti-woman cause or angle to it. I can’t handle or have a conversation with anyone that is so guarded. So yes, it’s hard even for me to meet someone.
I love what I do, and what I have been blessed with. I don’t need someone to complete me. I need someone that I can share my joy, laughter, pain and success with. That to me is the greatest starting point to a relationship.
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Written by: Raaj Kapur Brar
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