In this modern time, it doesn’t happen as often as we all hope. Falling in love that is, and if it does, we wish it to only happen once. I have loved before, and have loved with all my heart, but my love wasn’t enough. When we are single and romantic at heart, we tend to wear out hearts on our sleeves. I know no other way to live without such a notion.
Something happened to me recently which I never thought it would. Well I always knew it would, but just didn’t know when or where. I found a feeling which I thought went away. I found that blue bird of my life singing that song, ‘Blue Skies.’
I meet and talk to a lot of people daily and weekly. I recently met someone, who at first glance, struck a cord, and after I spoke with her on the phone, her energy looked familiar. Then at second glance seemed as if I knew her before. The feeling was strange and exciting at the same time. It seemed as if without no effort on her end, I was beginning to be swindled by her aroma. When we first met, I knew something was there, but didn’t know what exactly. Anyways, one thing led to another, and our attraction towards each other was so intense, that I don’t think anyone could of said anything that would of pushed us apart. Heck the building could of been on fire, and we would of just lied their in each others arms, cuddling, hugging and giving each other long sweet kisses. Ahhhhh, the feeling of that kiss from those lips that I once dreamed about, come true. The taste in which each breathe feels like a fresh intake of another breathe. Wow what a feeling. And yes, the chemistry was definitely there.
What Next?
Well, that’s for me to find out, and for you to read about. What I will say is that real love is fearless. All that I have written about love and relationships in the past comes down from karma, and recently that karma was starring right at me taking my breathe away. To me she is not a stranger. She thinks all this that is happening is too good to be true. Good things do last, just need to be patient and believe what you found is true and stand by that faith.
You can’t explain feelings, you can only show them. So give your love time to grow. There is no set speed or pace. It’s whatever you both feel is right. Trust your instincts. Learn from your past, but don’t let your past hurdle your growth onto your next journey. Otherwise the ship will sail, with you standing on the docks, holding on to your past. Take it day by day, moment by moment, and everything will work itself out.
Love with no fear of getting hurt. Can you imagine that? That is how I live. But it’s not for everyone, and it’s not a easy thing to learn. To find that balance without being bitter, stubborn, moody. It’s not easy. But then again, life is not easy.
Well this is just my weekly column telling you that I feel like Geronimo in love. If it lasts, it would be awesome. If it doesn’t, the time that it did, would always be priceless. To me at the point of my life I am in right now, I would not be hurt of feel pain. I have too much positive energy and love to give. If someone is not happy with me, then I from the bottom of my heart want to be happy without me or with someone else that will make them happy. Life is too short and if you love somebody, you would want to see them smiling and happy. With or without you!
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Written by: Raaj Kapur Brar